fix: coordinate sqlite index writers

Implement the full ADR-0006 plan: three-layer separation of transaction
correctness, retry policy, and cross-process writer coordination.

Layer 1 — scripts/tx.ts (transaction correctness):
- runWriteTransaction executes work exactly once; no internal retry.
- BEGIN IMMEDIATE takes the write lock up front (avoids SQLITE_BUSY_SNAPSHOT).
- Guarded rollback: checks inTransaction() via adapter before attempting
  ROLLBACK; never masks the primary exception.
- WriteTxDiagnostics attached to errors: phase, code, label,
  rollbackSucceeded, rollbackError, transactionActive.
- Binding adapters (betterSqliteTransactionAdapter, nodeSqliteTransactionAdapter)
  mapping better-sqlite3's `.inTransaction` and node:sqlite's `.isTransaction`.
- configureConnection centralizes WAL + synchronous + busy_timeout.

Layer 2 — scripts/write-coordinator.ts (retry policy):
- runRetryableWriteTransaction: bounded retry with total time budget.
- Only retries when the transaction confirmed ended (transactionActive=false)
  and the error is SQLITE_BUSY during work/commit phase.
- BEGIN-phase BUSY = abort entire build (isBeginBusyFailure); the caller
  returns `{ deferred: true, reason: 'writer_busy' }` instead of waiting.
- hasUnusableTransaction detects a still-active transaction after failure;
  aborts the build immediately, never retries.

Layer 3 — scripts/writer-lease.ts (cross-process coordination):
- acquireWriterLease: dedicated writer.lock.sqlite with busy_timeout=0 +
  BEGIN IMMEDIATE. Non-blocking attempt; bounded wait with retryDelayMs.
- writerLockPathFor derives lock path from the target DB path.
- Lease held for the entire build; released on completion or failure.
- Lock DB uses DELETE journal (not WAL); crash/close auto-releases.
- All consumers obey: skill acquires at build start (returns deferred if
  unavailable); app daemon (via worker) acquires for its build cycle.

Build semantics changes:
- affectedSessionIds updated only after successful commit.
- BuildIndexResult gains skipped/skippedFiles for observability.
- Skill finalize failure now fails the build (was silently warned).
- Checkpoint changed to PASSIVE (TRUNCATE reserved for maintenance/exit).
- Skill buildIndex returns { deferred, reason } on lease contention;
  indexer-service reschedules the build (deferredRetryMs) without publishing
  a heartbeat (so the build-deferred state is visible to cross-process
  arbitration).
- Service publishes heartbeat immediately on start() for correct arbitration.

Tests:
- tests/write-transaction.test.mjs: single-shot execution, diagnostics
  propagation, auto-rolled-back transaction detected, rollback failure
  captured as metadata, BEGIN IMMEDIATE semantics.
- tests/writer-lease.test.mjs: acquire/release, contention returns null,
  bounded wait with release during budget.
- tests/app-writer-lease.test.mjs: better-sqlite3 adapter integration.
- tests/app-rollback-guard.test.mjs: rewritten — transient BUSY recovered
  by coordinator, persistent BUSY skips file, begin-busy aborts build,
  live-transaction aborts build, phantom affectedSessionIds prevented.
- tests/daemon-arbitration.test.mjs: skill defers to fresh app heartbeat,
  builds when heartbeat is stale.
- tests/app-indexer-service.test.mjs: new cases for deferred-retry
  scheduling and immediate heartbeat on start.
- app/tests/electron-concurrency.mjs + child: dual-child IPC structure for
  real better-sqlite3 contention (holder acquires lock → build child starts
  → delayed release → result collected; persistent contention bounded).

ADR-0006 updated to reflect the implemented design.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

tests/writer-lease.test.mjs

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+import { test } from 'node:test';
+import assert from 'node:assert/strict';
+import { createRequire } from 'node:module';
+import { mkdtempSync } from 'node:fs';
+import { tmpdir } from 'node:os';
+import { join } from 'node:path';
+
+import { acquireWriterLease } from '../scripts/writer-lease.ts';
+
+const require = createRequire(import.meta.url);
+const { DatabaseSync } = require('node:sqlite');
+
+test('a writer lease excludes another writer until it is released', () => {
+  const lockPath = join(mkdtempSync(join(tmpdir(), 'obelisk-writer-lease-')), 'writer.lock.sqlite');
+  const openDb = path => new DatabaseSync(path);
+
+  const first = acquireWriterLease({ lockPath, openDb });
+  assert.ok(first);
+  assert.equal(acquireWriterLease({ lockPath, openDb }), null);
+
+  first.release();
+  const afterRelease = acquireWriterLease({ lockPath, openDb });
+  assert.ok(afterRelease);
+  afterRelease.release();
+});